Ever since the first sugar dating website made the scene in 2006, it’s been sugar meet sites all the way for girls looking for a sugar daddy. Pretty much, it’s an A to B, ipso facto kind of thing. If you want to find a box of Cheerios, you drive down to the supermarket; if you want to find a sugar daddy, you hit up the sugar daddy websites. The meet sites are king: Sugar relationships existed before them, for sure, but it was much harder to get into one. Just as a matter of the history of this lifestyle, there really is no overstating how HUGE these sites have been.
Truth delivered in this post:
1 – Why sugar daddy websites often suck.
2 – How to use a secret trick to find the best sugar daddies.
There’s just one problem, though, and that’s that the sites don’t always work. In fact, I’m not exaggerating when I say that most of them usually DON’T. And when you think about it, that’s quite a reveal, considering the kind of money that people drop on finding a sugar daddy (or a sugar baby, for that matter). So, a site charges you WAY out the ass, and in MOST cases you don’t even get what you went there for? What the hell is up? Are they scamming you?
Pretty much, yeah. I mean, I’m not trying to be a bitch here, but I’m also not gonna apologize for thieves. The meet sites know what they’re doing. For example, most of them have a BIG imbalance between male and female members, which if you think about it for just a minute, means a good chunk of the total membership in the bigger group won’t be able to find a match, or will have a MUCH harder time doing it.
What solution do the sites use? Do they try to find ways to create incentives for the gender with the smaller numbers to sign up? Nope, that would be the honest way. Instead, they go the full-on fraud route, and make up fake profiles. That’s right, they sit there and draw up personal information for people who don’t exist, try to give each of these imaginary individuals a “voice” and personality, and of course, represent them with pictures of supermodels (of any gender needed) swiped off the Internet.
Then they either pay people to troll their own site playing these roles, or more recently, they just use bots. Either way, the profiles run around messaging and carrying on with real members, trying to give them hope that a match may be about to happen. It isn’t, of course, and couldn’t possibly, but the site’s owners don’t care about that. They just want to keep you coming back, and keep you paying your monthly subscription fee.
The level of shady crap you sometimes deal with on sugar meet sites is absolutely insane. When you’re paying for access, this is unacceptable.
Some sites are worse about this than others, of course, and it’s reassuring to know that at least one sugar daddy website seems to have some integrity here. I’ve used this site quite a bit in the past, and I never once ran into a fake profile. On almost any other sugar meet site, while the amount of these profiles may be high or low, you can’t miss ‘em.
But even when you do get to talk to a real person while looking for a sugar daddy, you have to deal with the fact that you never really know who you’re going to meet at those initial encounters. Average quality of pots is something else that the site I have in mind is usually better about than the other meet sites, but there’s two things worth remembering:
First, that’s because this site’s reputation attracts more serious people, and they capitalize on that reputation by charging you ridiculous prices; and second, even this site (I’m not gonna mention the name) isn’t and can’t be perfect.
Looking for a high-quality sugar daddy can be a challenge on meet sites. The really good pots are usually to be found on other sites nobody talks about.
Believe me, I’ve had my share of nightmares there. My favorite was the guy who offered me cash up front to go up to his hotel room with him so he could “test drive the merchandise”. A friend of mine, meanwhile, was once invited to “name her price” to allow a pot she was meeting for the first time to put a roofie in her whiskey, have her knowingly drink it, and THEN go upstairs with him.
The REAL Way To Look For a Sugar Daddy
If you wanna know what I think, the sugar meet sites just aren’t worth it anymore when you’re looking for a sugar daddy. Or, anyway, there’s a much better way to find a quality sugar daddy. It’s getting more and more popular among sugar babies as time goes on, but as of now, it’s still some kind of “secret” that most girls don’t want to talk about. That’s just silly, if you ask me, so I’m gonna cover it.
I’m talking about cam sites, here. It doesn’t make a lot of sense to most people at first, but they’re actually the best way to get a sugar daddy nowadays. I’ll tell you this much right now: The sugar daddies definitely know it, and they’re already using cam sites to meet sugar babies. Chaturbate is pretty handily the most popular of the cam sites for that, so a big part of all the traffic it has (it’s one of the biggest cam sites in the world) is actually guys wanting to sugar.
Setting yourself up as a sugar baby there is pretty easy. You just get an account as a webcam model, and start broadcasting. If you stick with it for really any decent length of time, you’ll eventually start running into the “whales”, which are the guys who like to give cam girls huge tips. Those are the ones you’re looking for, because they’re almost always rich.
Sugar daddies are looking for sugar babies on cam sites because it makes sense. They can watch the girl, get to know her, bond with her in a social environment, and even have cybersex.
Like, seriously, more than the sugar daddies you’d find on the meet sites. And this is why sugaring works so well on cam sites: These guys are SO rich that they’ll drop hundreds or thousands of dollars (yes really) on girls just because they like those girls. It’s a hop, skip and a jump from THAT to making a sugar arrangement; you just need to get to be friends with those guys, and eventually, you’ll find one you click with.
Like I said, being visited by whales is something that happens naturally, and it happens to pretty much every cam girl who doesn’t give up on the work right away. That part is SERIOUSLY important to remember, though, because there’s huge turnover in this industry, and it’s almost ALL because girls think they’re going to start making money on their first day. They’re not; YOU’RE not. Go into it understanding that, or you’re just going to end up as another painfully avoidable statistic.
I say “painfully avoidable” because you WILL make money, and probably a lot of it, if you stick to it. But ONLY if you stick to it. So you really need to approach this with a healthy mindset, and don’t underestimate the time it will take. It’s easy to get discouraged when you sit there for hours a night, and a lot of times make nothing at all for your first few nights (because you’re new, and you don’t have fans yet). There’s a reason so many girls wash out.
BUT! Just about ALL of those girls come in with rotten expectations, thinking they’re going to get rich right away. Now you know better, which gives you the magic hack. So get on Chaturbate, STICK WITH IT, and find yourself your sugar daddy!