So you’ve heard about the sugaring lifestyle, and you know all about the fancy dates, the gifts, the allowances, all that good stuff. Maybe you’ve even been wanting to try it for real, but you’re held back by this idea of dating a guy your dad’s age. Hey, there’s an “ick” factor, I get it! And then it happens, baby.
Truth delivered in this post:
1 – Why young sugar daddies can be awesome.
2 – Why older sugar daddies are better.
Then you hear about IT, about that little-known fact that not all sugar daddies are old geezers. Okay, so you probably won’t find one in the college-age range, but sugaring with a guy in his 30s is totally realistic, and it’s soooo much better than messing around with 60 year-old men. Your mind’s made up! You’re sitting there right now thinking “I want a sugar daddy, but I want a young one!”
Young Sugar Daddy Facts
Whoa, girl, easy. Let’s talk this out. I understand the logic: young guys are more passionate, they can keep up an athletic pace on dates with you for longer, and if it ever comes to it, they’re usually better in bed. In most cases they’ll also have more in common with you personally, since you’re not dealing with people who grew up with the Civil Rights movement and who you just KNOW they’ve used the word “new-fangled” to describe the Internet at least ONCE in their lives! I feel you, I really do. In fact, I used to be the same way!
I remember Chad (not his real name, of course), a sugar daddy I had years back. At the time, he seemed perfect because he was only 30 and was already worth millions. I was thinking I need a sugar daddy, and it didn’t seem to get any better than young AND rich. Well, I didn’t see it at the time, but now I ain’t afraid to admit it: Chad was a total dick.
I’m pretty sure if I had opened up his skull, I would have found hundred-dollar bills in his brain; the money had obviously gone to his head, and it wasn’t going away. He was your classic “alpha male” prick: arrogant, domineering, and demanding everything his own way. I was kind of into that type back then, so I put up with him for a lot longer than I should have, even though I honestly didn’t like some of the shit he pulled.
Chad would agree to pick me up for a date at 7:00, then ALWAYS be half an hour late just to make me wait for him. No, he wasn’t simply bad at keeping time; I figured out he was doing it on purpose when I realized that it was always EXACTLY 7:30 when he showed up. I guess it was some kind of sick power trip for the asshole.
Sometimes he would take me to the mall to buy me gifts, but he insisted I always be “respectful” of him; if I ever contradicted something he said or even questioned whether an idea of his was wise while we were there, he’d say I wasn’t getting anything that day and that I should learn manners.
The really fucked up thing is that even though Chad was rich, he wasn’t actually all that generous as a sugar daddy. I mean, the allowance was nice ($3,000 a month; not bad), but a lot of times he would end dates early or put dollar limits on my gifts because he “had spent enough today already”.
I’ve learned since then that this is pretty common with younger sugar daddies, even when they have plenty of money: they still have a long time left on Earth, so they’re usually stingier than guys who know they have more than they could possibly spend in their 20 or so remaining years.
By the way, I eventually discovered that Chad was kind of a fraud: he did own a business, but his millions came from an inheritance after his wealthy father had passed. Spoiled legacy brat.
Older Sugar Daddy Facts
Now, let’s give the older guys some love. It’s not just that they’re more generous, like I said, even though they usually are. Men in their 50s and 60s (and up) have also seen a lot more than you have, and they have a lot to teach you about the world.
Something I’ve learned is that in many cases, that includes little-known facts and just plain SECRETS about the business they’re in; you know, the one that made them wealthy enough to be a sugar daddy?? They can share that with you, which sets you up real good for long after you’re done sugaring.
And then there’s this thing I’ve noticed where they just tend to appreciate you way more. Even when they know that their money is at least part of the bargain, older guys usually feel really lucky and blessed to have a young, pretty girl spending time with them. That makes them act really, really nice to you, and to treat you (and spoil you!) like their little princess.
Alright, now let’s get to what I know damn well is one of the main reasons you’re reluctant to sugar with an older guy: sex. It’s just fucking CREEPY to get into bed with someone that age. I get it, and there was a time when I was right there with you. Well, first of all, let’s never forget that not all sugaring includes sex. There are lots of guys who won’t even want that, ESPECIALLY older guys.
Even if they do, you NEVER have to go there if you don’t want to. If that’s a deal-breaker for him, then you either don’t need a sugar daddy as bad as you thought you did, or you need one who’s more understanding. Gotta tell you, though, as someone who’s now tried being intimate with older men, it really isn’t that bad!
I got over the weirdness after the first time, and pretty often those guys really know what they’re doing! I don’t know about you, but I want a sugar daddy who knows all the right buttons to push.
Online-Only Sugar Daddy Facts
Still, if you wanna avoid the whole issue and still get paid, the way to do it is by working as a cam girl. What does that get you? Well, first of all, cam models can make some pretty awesome money, so there’s that. But what I’m really talking about here is the fact that cam sites have whales (basically, big spenders), and some of those whales are looking for sugar babies.
Here’s the trick, though: guys like this actually PREFER to keep things totally online, and really just want to talk to you and maybe Skype once in awhile. For that, they’ll happily give you a regular allowance, AND they’ll buy you stuff right off your online wish list. I’m dead serious, here; these guys are for real.
There are lots of cam sites to find whale sugar daddies, but I’ve found that the best one is Chaturbate. It just seems to draw these guys in. Work there for awhile, and before too long, you’ll probably land one for yourself. Then you not only won’t have to worry about actual sex, but you may not even have to get naked on camera for whoever you get an arrangement with.
Most of these guys just aren’t into that part of it. Honestly, this is how I do it these days. While there was a time when I would have said that I want a sugar daddy I can hang out with in person, lately I’d rather just keep it online-only.